How to Solve Love,Sex And Money In Relationship

These three factors are mainly responsible
for relationship troubles. Here's how to
tackle them...

One problem or the other plagues all
relationships at some point. While many
people decide to ignore their issues and
keep hanging on to the relationship, others
give up without making any attempt to
work it out. While you may feel that you
are the one with all the problems, the other
person may also have complaints about
your behaviour. Here are some problems
that are bound to figure on your list and
the way to go about solving them.

Sex
If you feel men are the ones who have
issues with their sex life, think again. A
recent survey says that more than 64% of
women are unhappy with their partner's
performance in the bed. To keep the
chemistry in your relationship intact, talk it
out.
- Don't feel shy to admit your issues to
your partner. It is likely that your spouse/
partner doesn't realise that you are
unhappy.

- Spice it up. Ask your partner what he/she
would want to be more happy with your
bedroom behaviour.
- Consider consulting a therapist. What
might seem like a performance issue may
actually be a serious problem. Go to a
therapist and see if it helps.

Money

Should it be my money or our money?
Whether it's before or after marriage, cash
can cause a lot of trouble. A recent survey
states that more couples now prefer to
have separate bank accounts. Is this a
healthy trend? Most experts think it is, as
long as they pitch in equal amount for
household expenses. Here's how you can
sort your cash worries:
- Give you partner a clear indication of
what you expect out of him/her every
month.
- Try to work a system when one can be
the saver and the other the spender. Or put
aside equal amount for savings.
- But be flexible in case of a cash crunch.
- Don't hide debts from each other.
- Plan your short-term and long-term goals.

Lack of love and communication
Most couples feel that their partner is not
affectionate and doesn't listen to them.
That's often because neither party wants
to sit down and sort out their problems.
Talking about relationship issues never
seems very important to most people. So,
how do you communicate?
- Don't try to fit in your relationship talk
between chores. You can't be checking
your email or phone while talking to each
other.
- To avoid disturbance when you are
talking to each other, decide on a time
mutually.
- Set some rules. If you feel that either you
or your partner can't discuss problems
because of anger, find some ways to get
through those. Decide before hand that
you won't shout at each other; ban words
that you feel will hurt you or your partner.

- Be attentive when talking. Don't roll your
eyes or slouch when your partner is
talking. Your body language should
indicate that you are interested in
resolving the issues as much as your
partner.
- Like your issues seem important to you,
your partner, too, needs to get what he/
she wants out of the relationship. Don't
trivialise his/her issues.

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